i (apparently) have always thought that we'd always talk about our current shitty batch of problems every time we meet after a long time. honestly, sometimes i actually dread these meetings because i still sometimes feel that i don't 'contribute' to my batch of stories, while the other two do because sometimes i just don't feel like it. and then i remember that they sometimes also feel the same way, so it's all good.
turns out it's not always like that, and that we'd meet to just have fun and talk about anything but our problems, and its nice.
again, i'm very happy that we're the kind of people who can be like that.
kind of like a reminder for myself that we don't have to tell others about everything all the time (my personal favorite mode), anytime i get into that oh-my-god-they-suggested-that-i-should-open-up-myself-more-and-rant-ok-i'm-telling-anyone-i-encounter- mode (yes, i do understand that we do need to rant at times, else we'd explode. but we have to be able to read the situation of the 'listening' party as well)
a reminder on how to balance the two.
yes, i'm slow about learning things like that and i'm happy that i don't mind about it.
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